PERAN POLA ASUH ORANGTUA DALAM PEMBENTUKAN KARAKTER PADA ANAK

Abstract

The family is one of the important roles in educating the initial environment of an education in the family can not be separated from the proper parenting patterns applied by parents to their children. All parents want their children to grow up as highly respected individuals who are intelligent and have high Islamic behavior, including Muslim parents. Great people in the concept of Islam are reflected in the prime example of Muslims, namely Rasulullah SAW, according to Aisyah. ra. in a hadith: "Morality is the Koran". Parents, as early educators in the family have a fairly complex task to form a child to become the owner of the character of the Koran. This program is considered as the main capital in internalizing the values ​​of the Koran into the souls of children. This research was conducted through an instrumental case study approach with narrative study as a data collection method. The results showed that parents applied three types of parenting (compassion, caregiver and honing) proportionally according to the conditions experienced. This care is implemented together with advice and rationalization on daily problems. The advice used always connects God in it. In addition, parents as much as possible design the state of the family environment always in an atmosphere of da'wah. The results of this proper parenting are children who have a religious character, are honest, not arrogant, are obedient to both parents, and study hard.